The primary basic need of every human child, is the permanent body and emotional contact with another human being. It is more complicated than "it." However, something that should be simple and spontaneous, have become a problem. Almost all aim to make the child "does not bother us." It's strange. No other species of mammals pretend something so unusual in their own young. But it is common for humans to determine that it is best to "let mourn" "Not spoiled" or "not to become capricious." And we find it totally normal that the child's body is separated, alone in his crib. Alone in his stroller. Alone in his seat.
just born, we assume that it should sleep alone. Grows a little, and I believe it is great to ask for arms or pampering. And if it grows a little more, it's great to be home. Then it is great to mourn. Then it is great for not staying at a birthday party. And of course, always great to take a pee, or for fear of mosquitoes or for not wanting to go to school. If all I needed from the time of his birth was contact and did not get it, he knows his fate is left alone. The need Contact does not go away not get it, then your best option is to change the call model to a more "listenable" for the adult and possibly more annoying. Usually the child is ill. Almost all children are suffering from loneliness. But adults do not recognize the child's illness, the displaced need contact and presence.
Now if each of us we had the courage to remember and feel the pain suffered as a result of the methods of upbringing and education have suffered, and if we could get your hands on your heart and remember the abuse, humiliation and helplessness we suffered as children, understand that all This is a rematch. We unloaded the impatience, misunderstanding, misery and hate that we were victims. Now try to save and not to touch the child, because touching it hurts. It hurts the rigid body due to lack of love, it hurts morale, it hurts the soul. Are we willing to do something for future generations? Then we solve our children's pain and put our bodies available to those who are children today. Laura Gutman
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